Females...

Alright so I have a little bit of a complaint here. I'm actually going to tell you a little story and explain why I am so irritated.

There's a woman who I became friends with due to the fact that she was dating a Marine. She said she loved him, she said she'd stand by him, and she said a lot of other things. Well they have had an up and down relationship where they break up, get back together and repeat the cycle almost every day. I'm not fond of the guy but he is a Marine and he is serving, therefore I respect him and do what I can to help the girl he loves.

Well, every time they break up, she finds some other guy to comfort her. Then realizes that I was right when I told her not to rush into things because she still loved him. It gets even worse! Ah, so she does this over and over again. She realizes she still loves him and all of that. It's so frustrating to me because she said that once a military girlfriend, always a military girlfriend which is not true at all! So she started chancing after this air force guy. I completely warned her that she was in a cycle and had a habit she needed to break but she doesn't listen.

It's ridiculous and so frustrating. If you are a military girlfriend you stay true to your word and commit to them. You don't quit because of distance and you don't quit because you panic. Another thing, don't quit because you think you are too young for commitment and to take on the responsibilities in his life. If you truly love someone, you stand by them. So my advice to all of you is to make sure you can handle this lifestyle before you start jumping into the future. It's one that shouldn't be messed with unless you for sure can handle it.

Have a good night!

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