Man, the amount of people who have told me lately to move on and to forget him has really got me up in knots. You want to know the funny thing about that? All of them are guys. Now, why are guys always so anti-boyfriend of female friend? Heck if I know. But I have some advice for anyone going through hard times right now.
1. Don't panick, the situation may seem hopeless right now but give it time. It may be fixable.
2. Love, if you really love them then wait to see what happens. Maybe things will turn around.
3. Hope, believe in yourself and believe in him.
4. Be afraid, fear is the first part of feeling. It's going to be there regardless of where you go, just don't let it consume you.
5. Keep your head up, stay positive even if it is hard to do.
6. Don't let go, man that seems like a foreign concept but do not give up all hope. Maybe let go for a little while but not for good. Keep your faith strong and believe that you can fix things.
I'm hoping every day that he will come around instead of being angry with me. I don't want him to leave for a year with our friendship/relationship this way, whatever you want to call what we have right now. He will truly never understand the pain that I am going through right now with the way that he has been acting but I'm willing to forgive him no matter what.
I guess my last piece of advice for the day is be grateful for the love of your life. Do NOT take him for granted like I did. Cherish everything, every little thing he does for you, cherish the love you have. Believe me, if you don't you will regret. Stay strong ladies, I'm trying to and I'm trying to fight to save an extremely broken relationship.
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